Wow! sex starts with a Wow! relationship
I LOVE this concept! What a fantastic, easy-to-understand and FUN way to deal with some of the more serious issues all couples face. Jennifer Whitlock
Foreplay. It’s not just about sex. If you think foreplay is just the 20 minutes of smooching and doing whatever it is you do to warm up, think again. That may 
qualify as “foreplay” in your book, but in my book Frequent Foreplay Miles, Your Ticket to Total Intimacy, you’ll learn that Wow! sex starts with a Wow! relationship. And just as 
Wow! sex requires great physical foreplay, a Wow! relationship requires great emotional foreplay. What’s that? It’s doing those things that rack up . . .
Frequent Foreplay Miles. The goodwill points you earn when you do or say whatever it is that makes your sweetheart feel loved, cherished, supported, understood, nurtured, and, well, you get the picture. Also the points you lose when you screw up! To have a happy relationship, rack up as many and lose as few Frequent Foreplay Miles as possible. Hmmm . . . earning and losing points. Sounds a little like keeping score, doesn’t it? Well, guess what? We all keep score. It’s human nature. Maybe you’re a saint about not tit-for-tatting, but ‘fess up, you know at any given point in time whether your sweetheart’s “score” is in the tank or over the moon. It’s time to stop fighting human nature. In Frequent Foreplay Miles, Your Ticket to Total Intimacy you’ll learn how to nix the tit-for-tat and keep score in a way that supports your relationship. It’s fun. It’s easy. It’s sexy. And it works. You score big with the help of your . . .
Foreplay Back-Pocket GuideTM. Four deceptively simple questions to help you turn every occasion—from a trip to the grocery store to an uh-oh situation—into an opportunity for emotional foreplay. You’ll need to buy the book to get your Guide and find out how to have more . . .
Shela's ideas are a great way to re-ignite a relationship and get couples communicating. If you've ever been in a relationship, you'll get right away what she's talking about. You'll also appreciate the opportunity to think again about what really matters to you and to learn what matters most to the person you love. I know I did, and I've been married over 30 years. Plum Cluverius
Intimacy. It’s not just in the bedroom. No doubt about it. Sexual intimacy ranks right up there with best things in the world. So does the I’m-so-in-love warm feeling that comes when your sweetheart does something over-the-top wonderful. And so does the quiet, contented closeness that comes with holding hands in the movies. With Frequent Foreplay Miles, you’ll get your ticket to Total Intimacy, which is when . . .
And, as if that’s not enough, here’s what else you’ll get from . . .
The Book. With Frequent Foreplay Miles, Your Ticket to Total Intimacy, you’ll also learn how to . . .
- See every occasion as an opportunity for “foreplay”
- Keep new-love playfulness alive
- Develop the habit of constructive candor
- Turn knee-jerk negative reactions into positive spin
- Create and sustain a generous state of mind
- Embrace differences as a way to express love
- Honor and protect their relationship in the face of challenges
- Enrich themselves and their union through personal growth
- Overlook habits that can drive each other crazy
- Cope with in-laws, children, friends and other “fellow travelers”
When I first heard the title, I imagined the content would be light and fluffy. But Shela's workshop proved to be anything but that. The information was definitely fun, but also intelligent, meaningful and applicable to any relationship. Susan Dubuque
Still want to know . . .
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Is Frequent Foreplay Miles™ for you?
The Total Intimacy Program is right for you if:
- You want a happier, healthier relationship.
- You want to add more fun, joy, passion and clarity to your relationship.
- You want to nurture your relationship and keep it from ever becoming a troubled marriage.
I invite you to buy your copy today.
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Frequent Foreplay Miles is a simple yet valuable and effective structure for communicating with your spouse. It helped us "see" each other in a way we never have before, and it helped us know what we can do to improve our marriage while having fun doing it.
—Genevieve R.