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Frequent Foreplay Mles
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"Frequent Foreplay Miles is a simple yet valuable and effective structure for communicating with your spouse.  It helped us 'see' each other in a way we never have before, and it helped us know what we can do to improve our marriage while having fun doing it!"
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If every couple accumulated Frequent Foreplay MilesTM with the same enthusiasm as travelers collected frequent flier miles, divorce lawyers would be looking for a new line of work. Couples would also create Total Intimacy which is when . . .
  • You are so connected in mind and heart that you feel a physical bond
  • It's totally cool to share your innermost thoughts, needs and desires
  • You are 24/7 cheerleaders--nurturing, loving and supportive of each other in every way
  • You trust that even when you butt heads, step on each others toes, or get your wires crossed, that you each acted with the best intentions
  • You are supported in being the best you can be
  • And, as frosting on the cake, you want to jump each others bones at every opportunity!
Nature's Tit-for-Tat

Have you ever said to your sweetheart, "I owe you one," or "You just lost a few points," or "Don't I get credit for . . .?"

Sure you have.  Since the day Adam met Eve, couples have ignored relationship gurus who warn of the dangers of keeping score. We know we shouldn't, but truth be told, we all judge our sweetheart's words and actions based on our individual perception of how things should be.  We do it secretly, awarding and deducting "points" without our partner ever knowing why or when, harboring grudges and resentment that are too often based on nothing more than differing perspectives.

For most of us, this has the biggest impact on intimacy, in and out of the bedroom. Who hasn't gone silent over a perceived wrong? Or gone to bed with some simmering grudge and turned a back to the sweetheart who is left wondering why? We engage in a lose-lose match with little chance of a long-term relationship, much less long-term happiness.

With a divorce rate of 50%, it's time to stop fighting human nature.  Frequent Foreplay Miles helps couples nix the destructive tit-for-tat and instead build a rock-solid marriage by tallying up with Frequent Foreplay Miles.  It's fun.  It's sexy.  It's easy.  And, it works.

Keeping Score the Right Way

By redirecting the all-too-human proclivity to keep score in a positive direction, Frequent Foreplay Miles gives couples a common language with which to communicate a range of sentiments, from profound declarations of love to heart-bruising disappointment or seeing-red anger, to the everyday exchanges that really make or break a relationship. Couple learn how to build a passionate, rock-solid marriage and how to create and sustain Total Intimacy while they also learn how to:
  • See every occasion as an opportunity for "foreplay"
  • Keep new-love playfulness alive
  • Develop the habit of constructive candor
  • Turn knee-jerk negative reactions into positive spin
  • Create and sustain a generous state of mind
  • Embrace differences as ways to express love
  • Honor and protect their relationship in the face of challenges
  • Enrich themselves and their union through personal growth
  • Deal with habits that drive each other crazy
  • Cope with in-laws, children, friends and other "fellow travelers"
Is Frequent Foreplay MilesTM for you?

It is if:
  • You want a healthier, happier relationship without relationship counseling or therapy;
  • You want to add more fun, joy, passion and clarity to your relationship; or
  • You want to nurture your relationship and keep it from ever becoming a troubled marriage.
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