Shela is available for one-on-one relationship coaching in the Richmond, Virginia area or by telephone anywhere.
Shela is also available to give her Frequent Foreplay Miles seminars and keynotes anywhere, including
- Keep Score & Keep Your Marriage Happy! which is designed primarily for couples.
- Intimacy. It's Not Just About Sex which focuses on the development of emotional intimacy as the foundation for sexual intimacy.
- Don't Let The Passion for Your Business Kill the Passion in Your Love Life! which is designed for entrepreneurs who may find their love life taking a back seat to the demands of business.
To contact Shela,
click here and complete the Contact form or call Shela at 804.986.4342. Thank you.
Here's what marriage therapists are saying about Frequent Foreplay Miles:
As a clinical psychologist for
over 20 years, I often see individuals and couples who approach
discussions about their relationship with a sense of dread, worried
that they will make matters worse by trying to let the partner know how
they feel. As a result, they let small stresses and resentments build
up until these pose a real threat to the relationship. Frequent
Foreplay Miles provides a structure for couples to communicate with
each other and understand one anothers needs and preferences and, just
as important, a sense of levity and lightness that allows them to enjoy
the conversations and not take themselves quite so seriously. Frequent
Foreplay Miles: Your Ticket to Total Intimacy! is a book that all
marriage counselors and relationship coaches will be delighted to have
on their bookshelves and recommend to their clients. Kudos to you for
developing this concept into a lively, high-energy book with stories
and examples that make it accessible to anyone.
Ann V. Deaton, Ph.D., PCC, DaVinci Resources
Frequent Foreplay Miles is much more than just another self-help book
with a bag of tricks for a quick fix. Although it’s an easy and fun
read, its serious message reminds me of a quote from a colleague who
once said, ‘making love is the 100 ways that we live together.’ The
Frequent Foreplay Miles tracking process is an effective tool for
couples to learn how to stay grounded in their responses to each other
and to get their needs met – together and as individuals. It helps
them have less conflict and a more respectful relationship by teaching
them to respond in a non-defensive way, communicate what they hope to
get out of the relationship, and take responsibility for their own
actions. This is definitely a book that I, as a marital therapist,
would recommend to couples who are looking for a way to be closer and
more in touch with each other so they can be the responsive partners
they want to be, communicate with greater clarity, and together create
a joyful and solid relationship that can withstand the challenges all
couples face.”
Wendy Kopald, Licensed Clinical Social Worker