Shela is available for one-on-one relationship coaching in the Richmond, Virginia area or by telephone anywhere.  Learn a healthy and fun way for building emotional intimacy and improving intimacy in marriage today!

For details and information about Shela’s Relationship Coaching services, please visit ShelaDean.com.

Shela is also available nationwide to give her Frequent Foreplay Miles marriage seminars and keynote speeches relating to intimacy and relationships including the following:

• Keep Score & Keep Your Marriage Happy! which is designed primarily for couples.
• Intimacy.  It’s Not Just About Sex which focuses on the development of emotional intimacy as the foundation for sexual intimacy.
• Don’t Let The Passion for Your Business Kill the Passion in Your Love Life! which is designed for entrepreneurs who may find their love life taking a back seat to the demands of business.

Further details about Shela’s presentations for conventions, seminars, and workshops can be found at SpeakerShelaDean.com.

Here’s what marriage therapists are saying about Frequent Foreplay Miles:

“As a clinical psychologist for over 20 years, I often see individuals and couples who approach discussions about their relationship with a sense of dread, worried that they will make matters worse by trying to let the partner know how they feel. As a result, they let small stresses and resentments build up until these pose a real threat to the relationship. Frequent Foreplay Miles provides a structure for couples to communicate with each other and understand one anothers needs and preferences and, just as important, a sense of levity and lightness that allows them to enjoy the conversations and not take themselves quite so seriously. Frequent Foreplay Miles: Your Ticket to Total Intimacy! is a book that all marriage counselors and relationship coaches will be delighted to have on their bookshelves and recommend to their clients. Kudos to you for developing this concept into a lively, high-energy book with stories and examples that make it accessible to anyone.”
— Ann V. Deaton, Ph.D., PCC, DaVinci Resources

“Frequent Foreplay Miles is much more than just another self-help book with a bag of tricks for a quick fix. Although it’s an easy and fun read, its serious message reminds me of a quote from a colleague who once said, ‘making love is the 100 ways that we live together.’ The Frequent Foreplay Miles tracking process is an effective tool for couples to learn how to stay grounded in their responses to each other and to get their needs met – together and as individuals.  It helps them have less conflict and a more respectful relationship by teaching them to respond in a non-defensive way, communicate what they hope to get out of the relationship, and take responsibility for their own actions. This is definitely a book that I, as a marital therapist, would recommend to couples who are looking for a way to be closer and more in touch with each other so they can be the responsive partners they want to be, communicate with greater clarity, and together create a joyful and solid relationship that can withstand the challenges all couples face.”

— Wendy Kopald, Licensed Clinical Social Worker