Frequent Foreplay Miles, Your Ticket to Total Intimacy

Testimonials

Here’s what others are saying about Frequent Foreplay Miles . . .

“Shela, I love your book and it has been a lot of fun to implement with my husband. Thanks for introducing some ‘fun’ into having a more fulfilling relationship.” Jennifer P.

“Shela spoke to the Executive Girlfriends’ Group about her book Frequent Foreplay Miles. It was the most practical and everyday useful advice about relationships that I have ever heard. Many of the women (including me!) gave a copy of the book to their husbands and are looking forward to the results of having a common and fun metric for measuring the health of our marriages.” Chicke Fitzgerald, Founder, Executive Girlfriends’ Group.

“The light bulb really went off when my wife Betty and I attended one of Shela’s Frequent Foreplay Miles workshops. I finally get why we sometimes misunderstand each other. Now we have the tools to clear up those misunderstandings, and we’re doing a better job of ‘placing ourselves in the other’s shoes.’ Frequent Foreplay Miles is a great concept. And it’s fun!”  Chip G.

“I LOVE this concept! What a fantastic, easy-to-understand, and FUN way to deal with some of the more serious issues all couples face.” Jennifer W.

“Shela’s ideas are a great way to re-ignite a relationship and get couples communicating. If you’ve ever been in a relationship, you’ll get right away what she’s talking about. You’ll also appreciate the opportunity to think again about what really matters to you and to learn what matters most to the person you love. I know I did, and I’ve been married over 30 years.” Plum C.

“When I first heard the title, I imagined the content would be light and fluffy. But Shela’s workshop proved to be anything but that. The information was definitely fun, but also intelligent, meaningful and applicable to any relationship.” Susan D.

“Frequent Foreplay Miles helped us ‘see’ each other in a way we never have before, and it helped us know what we can do to improve our marriage while having fun doing it!” Genevieve R.

“As a clinical psychologist for over 20 years, I often see individuals and couples who approach discussions about their relationship with a sense of dread, worried that they will make matters worse by trying to let the partner know how they feel. As a result, they let small stresses and resentments build up until these pose a real threat to the relationship. Frequent Foreplay Miles provides a structure for couples to communicate with each other and understand one another’s needs and preferences and, just as important, a sense of levity and lightness that allows them to enjoy the conversations and not take themselves quite so seriously. Frequent Foreplay Miles: Your Ticket to Total Intimacy! is a book that all marriage counselors and relationship coaches will be delighted to have on their bookshelves and recommend to their clients. Kudos to you for developing this concept into a lively, high-energy book with stories and examples that make it accessible to anyone.”  Ann V. Deaton, Ph.D., PCC, DaVinci Resources

“Frequent Foreplay Miles is much more than just another self-help book with a bag of tricks for a quick fix. Although it’s an easy and fun read, its serious message reminds me of a quote from a colleague who once said, ‘making love is the 100 ways that we live together.’ The Frequent Foreplay Miles tracking process is an effective tool for couples to learn how to stay grounded in their responses to each other and to get their needs met – together and as individuals.  It helps them have less conflict and a more respectful relationship by teaching them to respond in a non-defensive way, communicate what they hope to get out of the relationship, and take responsibility for their own actions. This is definitely a book that I, as a marital therapist, would recommend to couples who are looking for a way to be closer and more in touch with each other so they can be the responsive partners they want to be, communicate with greater clarity, and together create a joyful and solid relationship that can withstand the challenges all couples face.”  Wendy Kopald, Licensed Clinical Social Worker